[dropcap]I[/dropcap]f you’re a wild and free spirit, something like hosting a swinger’s party could get your juices flowing in a kinky sort of way. While most people are content with single relationships and the usual sex, you’re the kind of person who would prefer orgies and having sex with different partners.
And if our biological make up would tell us, we enjoy having sex with more than one partner anyway. Why else would so many people cheat on each other?
Even in happy relationships, people feel a primal urge to have sex with other people. It’s just part of being a human. It’s instinctual!
So if you’re seriously thinking about planning a swinger’s party, here are some great tips to have a successful first time:
#1 – Make Sure You Get People Who Are Genuinely On Board
The last thing you want is a bunch of people dropping out at the last minute because of cold feet or nerves, because then you’re left with an odd number of people. This means that someone will be left without a partner, and that would just be a waste of time for that guy, or he’d have to wait his turn (or girl).
This is not good for a party like this, and you’ll quickly get a lot of “no” responses to future events of this nature.
You need to have a group of people you can trust for this sort of thing, because I’ll tell you right now, finding more people for this will be tough in a pinch.
#2 – Make Sure to Make Space for Everyone
It’s easy to underestimate the amount of space you’ll need to accommodate the sexual behaviors of everyone in a single room. It’s easy to figure out what you’re going to do, but you’re probably not sure what other people enjoy doing.
And for the love of everything that is holy, remember to buy cleaning supplies for when you’re finished. I’m sure you don’t want to sit on a sticky couch for the rest of your life, do you?
Or if you prefer, drape everything in sheets so you’re not totally grossed out in your living room forever.
#3 – Offer Protection and Refreshments
It’s common courtesy to offer condoms, beer, water, and other sexual items for the use of your guests.
It’s just polite manners to do it this way, as you’ll be showing your guests that your place is the place to be for swinger’s parties!