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How To Make A Threesome Happen

How To Make A Threesome Happen

Like eternal life, many of us dream about having a threesome. Yet, unlike eternal life, threesomes actually do happen. You might not believe it, but 20% of people have enjoyed a threesome. So they say. Which means someone you know could well have had one – and it means you’ve got a 1 in 5 chance of having one yourself.

Instigating a threesome is not exactly easy, though. For purely mathematical reasons, it’s easier than getting a foursome or a fivesome, but the question is always “Where the fuck do I start?” Unless you’re a porn star, you’re not just going to walk into a bar and bag yourself a threesome. Neither are you gonna be able to simply catch the bus into town and expect to be able to get a threesome out of it. Threesomes don’t just appear. There’s a bit of work you’ve gotta do.

Enjoy A Healthy Relationship With Your Partner

If you want to mention to your partner that you’d quite like a threesome, your relationship needs to be stable, healthy and open. Preferably from the beginning. If you’ve been having a tough time of late, arguing and fighting constantly, asking for a threesome over breakfast is NOT going to work out.

There is a good chance she’ll cry. Or punch you.

If your relationship is strong and solid, only then can you as a couple handle everything that comes with a threesome.

Be Secure

To be good candidates for a threesome, you and your partner both need to be secure and confident with who you are. If your partner has esteem issues, she’s not going to be able to handle a threesome. The chances are she’ll get jealous of the other girl, pissed off with you, and you won’t be getting any sex for a long time to come.

If your partner is down in the dumps – for example, she’s lost a job – a threesome is not the perfect pick-me-up.

“Hey, darling, got a present for you! Come on, work isn’t everything!”

Not gonna work.
If, however, you’re both going through good times at the moment, now is the time to strike.

Make Sure She’s Adventurous In Bed

If your girlfriend gets nervous whenever you want to keep the lights on in the bed, there is no way in hell she’s gonna be up for a night of amore with another woman. If she can’t even handle dirty talk and looks away whenever a sex scene comes on TV, asking if you can add another girl to the equation is gonna be her worst nightmare.

But if she’s adventurous in bed and just loves to experiment and try things you never even thought were possible, there is a good chance she’d be interested to hear all about this threesome idea you’ve got.